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Ever wish you were one of those lucky people who oozes sensuality and knows how to make just the right romantic move at the perfect time? Well, you can be. The art of seduction is well within anyone's reach. All you need to learn are a few simple techniques that will exert such a powerful force, you won't know how you ever dated without them. Read on for the scoop, then get ready to be a smooth operator when wooing your special someone.

Reach out and touch someone

When you feel ready and raring to get closer to your date, touch is often the ticket. Not only does it forge an instant physical connection, the warmth of your hand on the small of your date's back, shoulder, or knee will get his or her mind racing. Matt has often used this technique with great results. 'When I'm talking to a girl and I find myself wanting to take things further, I start playing with her hair,' he says. 'We'll be sitting on the couch, and I'll be next to her stroking her hair. When it feels right, I'll rest my hand on the back of her head and gently pull her in for a kiss. Because I'm already playing with her hair, it feels like a natural next step, not like I'm suddenly putting the moves on her.'

Turn down the volume on your conversation

You can also use conversation to cast a spell on the object of your affections. In this case, it's often not what you say, but how you say it. People who talk loudly and jovially can be the life of the party, but speaking softly actually packs much more punch in the turn-on department. Your date will probably lean in a little closer to catch what you're saying—and that's always a plus. He or she may also get the feeling that you don't want anyone else to hear what you're saying, adding a nice umbrella of privacy and intimacy to your conversation. Even better, try whispering in your amour's ear—a move that always gets things going for Guillermo. 'It lets her know what it will be like to be close to me and lets her feel my warm breath on her ear,' he explains. Both of which can really get your date's senses tingling. And you don't even have to try to say something smooth and sexy—that, in fact, can be overkill. Have fun with it, advises Guillermo. Try something a little goofy like, 'I have a secret I want to share: Sometimes I watch Gilmore Girls. But that's between you and me; promise?'

Ever wish you were one of those lucky people who oozes sensuality and knows how to make just the right romantic move at the perfect time? Well, you can be. The art of seduction is well within anyone's reach. All you need to learn are a few simple techniques that will exert such a powerful force, you won't know how you ever dated without them. Read on for the scoop, then get ready to be a smooth operator when wooing your special someone.

Reach out and touch someone

When you feel ready and raring to get closer to your date, touch is often the ticket. Not only does it forge an instant physical connection, the warmth of your hand on the small of your date's back, shoulder, or knee will get his or her mind racing. Matt has often used this technique with great results. 'When I'm talking to a girl and I find myself wanting to take things further, I start playing with her hair,' he says. 'We'll be sitting on the couch, and I'll be next to her stroking her hair. When it feels right, I'll rest my hand on the back of her head and gently pull her in for a kiss. Because I'm already playing with her hair, it feels like a natural next step, not like I'm suddenly putting the moves on her.'

Turn down the volume on your conversation

You can also use conversation to cast a spell on the object of your affections. In this case, it's often not what you say, but how you say it. People who talk loudly and jovially can be the life of the party, but speaking softly actually packs much more punch in the turn-on department. Your date will probably lean in a little closer to catch what you're saying—and that's always a plus. He or she may also get the feeling that you don't want anyone else to hear what you're saying, adding a nice umbrella of privacy and intimacy to your conversation. Even better, try whispering in your amour's ear—a move that always gets things going for Guillermo. 'It lets her know what it will be like to be close to me and lets her feel my warm breath on her ear,' he explains. Both of which can really get your date's senses tingling. And you don't even have to try to say something smooth and sexy—that, in fact, can be overkill. Have fun with it, advises Guillermo. Try something a little goofy like, 'I have a secret I want to share: Sometimes I watch Gilmore Girls. But that's between you and me; promise?'

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